2020年05月14日
The reason why I do not want to get married
Today, I want to talk about why I prefer being single for life.
Oh, I am single by the way for a long time or should I say I have never dated?? lol
I had a little chat today on the internet with friends from school.
We were given the topic "what are some barriers for Japanese women in business?'
Most of the students answered the reason why the higher position in a company is mainly dominated by men is women tend to stay inside to take care of their children in Japan.
I have been wondering why people still want to get married...
Here are the benefits of being single
1. No need to pay attention to others. No fights, no awkwardness with people.
2. No need to spend money on unnecessary stuff. Things like a present for bf/gf.
3. Be able to have more time for yourself. You can concentrate on your thing.
4. Be able to make human assets bigger. People make $4,000,000 for life generally.
5. Nobody will care about you. You can do whatever you want.
This is what I can think of about the benefits of being single.
You cannot have these if you are planning to get married.
People might say how I can say these without the experience of dating or marriage.
Well, of course not all people fit what I stated. But I rarely see people who married have a happy life.
Usually, they make some bad comments on their partner.
I ask them, "Then why did you get married?"
They say "Well, He/She was not like that when we got married. He/She has changed a lot."
Some people also say marriage is a symbol of happiness. Like "I can't be happy unless I get married!!"
There is no such thing in this world. And now that one-third of a married couple is divorcing in Japan.
Yes, my parents are also divorced too! Don't worry, I am way happier now even I am single and no family members.
Because I can be myself more than ever.
"Marriage" is the biggest life event for anybody. There is a lot to commit and give up.
Is it worth it even if you lose "something" for it?
So, please, if you think marriage has benefits, I am waiting for your comment...
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