ファンメモ　ｂｙ　hymisoshiru

I also had this experience a long time ago.
I was feeling want to run escape quickly from this situation.

This is like a child whine.

Since such people have gone to the discomfort to a person not, related to the surrounding, this person lowered the motivation of the company.

That's right. Women on the contrary is also useless to dabble in men.
From impatience that can not persuade the opponent the words, it puts a hand. It is serious.

This is a direct attack dependent.[Want to be recognized] to the other party that dominate than your　partner, you're trying to satisfy a self-desire to be freed from his own frustration and anxiety and fear.
Trauma of the past that was not me admitted to the other party is, the target of attacks has worked to replace turn weak person than yourself.
That the attack in this way a disservice to yourself has received to target the weak person than myself.
【identification with the aggression】and say.
In addition, this and will continue to escalate, the person who is being attacked,
there is a risk that occurs [chain of attacks] to attack against a person much weaker than their own.
If have been attacked in reverse that there are no weak people than you around.
or, people who can not bully the weak people from the beginning,is the guilt you desperation by directing the attack on your own.
This is the so-called [depression].
The deep layers of the mind of a person who has become this [depression] is, in fact, [the same of the attacker] indirect attack dependency of much not even notice the person is going on.
Company of co-workers and family to become a [depression] is also worried. In other words, in the sense that afflicts someone through illness, it has been the identification of the attacker.

 

I see. I learned a lot. So it is occurrence on both, [the same of the attacker] the person side who is attacked which is the person side to attack.
To resolve it,we need cut off from our own frustration and anxiety.
However, how can you make sure that, we be eliminated from those feelings?

That's right.
If there is also opportunity because I have become time, I would like to talk about it. Everyone please spend healthful day.
Thank you for today.

HYMISOSHIRU important point of learned from KASUMI teacher.

We that is in contact with people who bellow loudly, recognized fake to get past the situ,this is important.

Do not run away from anxiety and fear.

It is important to face firmly.

It is to always have a feeling of remorse and gratitude.